Wedding Banquet, ROM?

What are wedding to you guys?

Holding traditional banquet? Holding ROM @ a restaurant wif close frens & relatives witness? Being proposed infront of the whole world?

I mean different ppl have different view of holding banquet. True enuf that holding all these needs to be w/in your budget. Some ppl thinks that holding banquet/ ROM is wanting to show off. Some are due to parents wish. 

Ever think of what kind you wan?

Mi don really think of it yet. All women do dream of being princesses dream wedding. Wearing the most elegant wedding dress walking down the red carpet. Be it by the pool side, most romantic view, yatch etc.

I do know what budget we have on hand. Not that rich family nor nice relatives to help us out. So we have to be realistic. So what is realistic?  Not having a real propose? Not having any 'Guo Da Li' (meaning guys bringing stuff to propose to gals family). Not having a dream hse of own design?

Ytd had an argument with the guy.

All because of wedding. Realise that if 2 person wanting to be together really need to Communicate !!! Communicate abt everything! Hold or not to hold wedding banquet, hold or not to hold ROM in a nice venue, where to take wedding photos, how or not to design hse. All this kind of rubbish. Yes we might be tired over this & wan to do it asap wif anything just to get over it.

But will be regret if it juz a simple job or anyhow job ?

I will regret & grumble over it over the years if I do not have what I wan.

But I will also need to balance the budget in order to do all these. Fit the budget to do the scenerios.

Previously the guys did a very very very simple propose w/o ring & a single stalk of flowers. And he is not those romantic kind which he juz bring me in the choose the ring. Too practical abt it. feeling that is too fake for all these.  And the thing is I did ask him to officially propose to me again & again. I'm anything wif having the world to know or privately. I just want an official propose. I mean propose is a memorable event. I already accept that he is not romantic nor giving surprise to me in any other times.

I just want an official proposal !!

I dono why fate bring me to a guy who is not romantic or surprise giving. Ignoring it I feel sorry to myself. How?

I really need someone who is mature enuff to console or comfort mi.

Tell me more abt the pros & cons abt wedding.